Saturday, April 5, 2014

Farewell Friday

Our last day with the kids was a mix of feelings. In just a few short days we had fallen in love with these kids- and it was such a rewarding experience to see our babies from last year- Christopher ( now Jet), Amelia ( formerly Lucy), Frankie, Charlie, Ethan, Lucy, Bella and Quin - grown so much. Bella had weighed just a few pounds and we shared with the ayis how to wear her in the sling and take lots of time to feed her. Now she is a growing albeit tiny child with the most amazing eyes. She has had successful heart surgery and is enjoying exploring her world.

Christopher, Amelia, Frankie, Charlie and Quin all have been matched with families. And we hope that will be true for Ethan soon too. The boys have all had surgeries and are doing so well. It is hard to believe those bitty boys from last year have grown so. Our Amy's file is being finished and sent off in the next week. We hope to have happy news about her lucky family soon too.

And we were delighted to hear that two of our children had been adopted by local families the week before we arrived. And that meant we had two new arrivals. We will share more about them in the next month.

Our last day entailed more playing and feeding kids. For us seeing what is going on moment to moment in the First Hugs room is very telling. Our program has come so far in a few years. Just two years ago, it was a 12 hour a day program in a room with no door and the bundled kids went back to the main orphanage at night. You can see pictures of what that looked like on our website main page; photos taken by the Smith Family (Gigi's Light Photography) when they adopted their daughter from XinXiang.

We reviewed some of our concerns with our head ayi, and later at a dinner with the orphanage director we reiterated those issues. We are happy to say there were few. We would like to see more scheduled reading and music time. We are going to "promote" one ayi- an amazing, loving woman who has been with us for four years and truly loves the kids- to assistant manager of our room. We want our room manager/head ayi to have two days a week off!! And we want to be sure our older toddlers get the preschool experience Krista shared with the nannies.

It has been our privilege to visit the children and see them grow. Fun on the playground, dancing and laughing, seeing them play under the cribs- it has all be an amazing insight into their daily lives. We want for all of them to be in forever families. But in the meantime, we are so pleased they do not languish in cribs, staring at their hands, bottles propped but instead are held, played with, loved and treasured.

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Thanks for following our journey.

Moya and Krista