Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Today started out with a shopping expedition. We were looking for a music player for the First Hugs room. A quick trip to Wal-Mart and we met with success. Our friend William, who translates our quarterly reports and was our translator for our visit last year, joined us in Gracie's Room for the day.

Our little preemie baby is doing so well! QiRui, our Gracie's Room. First Hugs supervisor, said that our wee one drank 50 ml of milk yesterday whereas before that, the most she drank before that was 30 ml. And this afternoon when Moya fed her, she drank almost 30 ml. Patience and wearing her in a sling is really helping.

A little boy we are calling Christopher is quite the bruiser!!He is one healthy looking little fella. He has a cleft palate but no cleft lip. He had quite a messy diaper this afternoon and after Krista pointed it out to QiFei, it was bath time! The kids are bathed in a sink in the "milk room" donated by the Lange family whose daughter Lily was adopted from XinXiang last year. There is a powerful heating lamp above the sink so the kiddoes stay warm while being bathed.See the picture for our beautiful Christopher enjoying his bath.

After our lunch, ( we are enjoying all our lunches at the orphanage and they are so amazing. Today's favorites: pork buns, broccoli and garlic, eggs with tomato, and lotus root and pork. So yummy!!) we explored the orphanage a bit. We found the room with little, little in the beginning of the name ( Yes, Moya can read that character but only because it is part of her daughter's name!!). There were 11 babies in the room for teh "little littles", many who were severely disabled. Krista spotted a preemie who had spina bifida. She was worried if he stayed there without special care, he might not survive. Meanwhile Moya was trying to stop a very blue baby from crying. This little one obviously had a heart issue. A short conversation later and we had approval to move these two babies to our First Hugs Room. We will have two more kids then normal but we know some children will be adopted soon and we know these teenies need us!!

We also saw some other rooms in the orphanage with older disabled kids and later saw some older toddlers playing outside at the playset. They were just loving the trampoline. Great to see joy in the midst of the orphanage.

Moya and Krista met with the director, along with Fei Fei - the woman in charge of adoptions at the orphanage -as translator. It was a very productive meeting. We discussed some changes we wanted to see- simple things like a diaper changing location, washing hands after changing babies, germ awareness, and installing a mirrored half wall with bar as we have in our other locations. We were satisfied that this relationship will continue to grow and we will continue to see great improvements in the care provided. I think we have said before that the difference in what we see now compared to one year ago is striking. But we will continue to work together to improve things.

Moya, Krista and Cathy

Orphanage Visit

Monday, March 24, 2013

Well, we are here! This morning we went to the orphanage. We were met by Fei Fei who now manages all the adoptions and the handles the babies and their paperwork when they are abandoned. She is delightful and speaks great English. Bonus for us.

We met with the director and then were brought to Gracie's room. We met our new manager who also speaks great English. Her name is Qi Rui. The difference between the old Gracie's Room/ First Hugs in the old orphanage and our new space is just breathtaking. The space is bright and airy and clean! the children were being well cared for. They obviously had a great relationship with their ayis or caregivers. There was so much affection, love and playfulness.

We were delighted that four of the children had been adopted domestically and there is one beautiful little girl who will go to a local family next month. And we have a few new children in the program for a total of 16 children! Mant still need sponsors.

Several of the children go to "rehab" for several hours during the morning and afternoon. There is one little baby who is just one month old and is a preemie. She slept almost the while day and is just 3 lbs. I held her for much of the time. 

All in all, pictures peak volumes so I am attaching a few. More tomorrow.

Moya, Cathy and Krista

Sunday, March 24, 2013

It's that time of year again! Krista- our Gracie's Room director-,  Cathy - our treasurer and Gracie's mom- and me- Moya, executive director of Dianjiang Kids- are back in Henan province.  We would love for you to follow along on our journey as we visit the children and staff of our Gracie's Room/First Hugs project at XinXiang in Henan province in China.

When we visited last year, we were convinced things had to change. This Gracie's Room /First Hugs project was not what we wanted it to be. It was too tough for our kids to be in Gracie's Room/First Hugs with our nannies special care and love for eight hours a day and then have to go back to the general orphanage population. We spoke with the orphanage director and we all agreed things had to change.

By the fall, the orphanage had moved to a beautiful new building and property. The orphanage helped us to hire a new manager for our Gracie's Room/First Hugs project who spoke English as well as Chinese so we could have better communication. We will introduce you to her later this week. We also hired new nannies/ayis. They receievd special training to understand child development and will continue to get new training.

So now our wonderful kiddoes are in a 24 hour a day program. They always get special love and attention. This week we will be visiting with the kids on loving on them. We will be learning how the new Gracie's Room is working and we will be offering our ideas  and training for activities during the day. We would love for you to follow along.

We arrived in Zhengzhou, Henan's capital, Friday night after a 30 plus hour day of travel. Today we made our way to Wal Mart and bought some board books for the kids. Tomorrow we head out to XinXiang for the week. We look forward to sharing with you!!


Moya

Lily Orphan Care Center LuoHe

Today we visited the Lily Orphan Care Center at LuoHe. This project is how we hope to see Gracie's Room being run. It is a 24 hour program with well trained caregivers and children divided in rooms by age. It was amazing to hold the babies ( especially a teeny tiny one who was obviously born prematurely). We played with the one year olds and the spent time with the toddlers who obediently lined up against the wall on their stools to listen to music. Too cute.

We also got a chance to tour the rest of the orphanage to see how the rest of the kids live. It is very difficult to see some of it. The disabled older children live very sad lives. Certainly gives one a sense of great powerlessness to witness this without the ability to change it.

We had a delicious lunch in the orphanage cafeteria and the headed out on another two hour drive; this time back to Zhengzhou. We visited the Zhengzhou orphanage and another Lily Orphan Care Room where we saw more happy babies. A little one with albinism was sweet and we got to see Xia delivers package and picture to a little boy who will meet his family soon. So cute to see him kiss the picture while his caregiver pointed out his mama, baba and brothers and sisters.

We then visited another floor at Zhengzhou orphanage to see the Show Hope project.  Again, this is a project wherein babies get special care from their caregivers. It is obviously a well funded project and the babies seem very loved. Each baby has a lovely crib with netting at the top and what looks to be homemade quilts.

Back to our hotel in Zhengzhou for a rest before an important lunch tomorrow.

Hello from China

Wednesday was our last day at XinXiang,After breakfast we headed to the orphanage but it took us a while to get there because there was an annual temple festival in the street. Once we got to the orphanage, we heard fireworks and even a marching band. Moya ran out to the street to get pictures and Ian got video. It was a really neat neighborhood experience. We spent time with the children and Krista gave the nannies a lesson in how to use the cloth diapers we brought and how to be sure each child had access to his/ her fingers. The kids are so bundled up, many of the little ones cannot get to their fingers. It was amazing to see the difference in the little blind girl with the ability to reach her fingers...she just blossomed. Sometimes, it is the simple things.

Before we left we caught sight of older kids in another part of the orphanage who were spending too much time on potty chairs. Some day maybe we can effect even more change. It is hard to see children not cherished or even treated humanely. We had a farewell lunch and meeting with the orphanage director. Our goal as the orphanage moves to the new building next month, is to hire more staff and turn Gracie 's Room into a 24 hour a day program. We went to the new building and picked out rooms with lots of light to be our new space. We are so excited to see the decorations and toys we brought brighten up a clean, spacious room. The expanded staff of nannies will be trained by staff from CCAI's Lily Orphan Care room at LuoHe Orphanage.

We drove two hours after lunch to get to LuoHe. We had dinner with officials from the local government and orphanage and a deputy director from the provincial Civil Affairs office. This is important as connections and relationships in China are so important to our ability to help the children. We are so grateful to CCAI and Xia Zhong for their support and leadership in our projects.

Tomorrow : to visit projects and LuoHe and Zhengzhou orphanages.

Xinxiang Visit Update

HI everyone!


We just finished spending the afternoon loving on lots of babies. We kissed, hugged, fed, played and even got peed on!  I am going to make a file called Gracie's Room March 2012 for our pictures.

It was an amazing experience today. The room which was void of interactive toys and color, quickly turned into a rainbow as I took toys and playmats out of my bag and handed them around. I truly felt like Santa Claus, I got choked up as each child's face lite up as I passed out toys.

Cathy was a pro at assembling the activity gyms, and play mats and feeding the cleft affected babies with the new bottles, Angela was the baby whisperer, and quickly had them asleep in her arms singing softly to them. Ian (when his camera wasn't in his hands) was the human ferris wheel, lifting them into the air with squeals of delight. Moya the eagle eye, was the voice and eyes of Gracie's Room, looking to see where we can place toys and bottles, talking with director all the while with a baby in her arms, Andi (her 8yr old daughter) was a great Jie Jie (big sister) to all the babies, tossing balls and teaching them how to play with the toys, and I tried to be the babies advocate, making sure files and babies matched with diagnosis, and birth dates, if we felt a baby was sick, I made notes to have the baby receive medical care, I explained to the nannies why the toys were important for the development of muscles, brain and motor skills.

We were quite the crew, and all worked well together. The nannies were at first reluctant and shy at all the toys and mats coming out, but once Cathy placed a child on the mat and within seconds she started to bat at the toys and shake her legs and laugh, the nannies were accepting and started to place babies onto the play mats, and place toys into the hands of the little ones. For some of the older (2 to 3 yrs) kids, the interactive toys were a big hit, like the shape sorter, xylophone and the ball drop.

We also visited a classroom with around 7 kids and a teacher. One of the children, a little girl, is being adopted very soon and was actually taken out to have her pictures done for her passport. I managed to quickly measured her foot for her mom and it is tiny!!! ( only about 4 inches long) She is a cutie and was all smiles for me! Earlier in the day we spent an hour at a foster care home, meeting 3 children and all the foster parents, there were 2 boys and 1 girl. OH MY! So much fun! The kids were so cute, and obviously cherished by their foster parents. We could clearly see the benefits of foster care. They shared drinks and treats with us, and we shared chocolates with them!

We got great video and photos of the visit. I played with the little girl (who is being adopted very very soon) and although she was shy of me at first, she warmed up and by the end of the visit, would run into my runs laughing so hard, she was drooling!! It was a hoot!  The little 4 year boy recited a poem for us and we have it on video. He is delightful! Oh, by the way, if your child comes home with cavities, blame Cathy, as she was handing out bubblegum lollipops and chocolate to all the kids!

We had a great day and I'll upload photos very soon.

Krista Dolan
Director of Gracie's Room

Off to XinXiang

The van from the orphanage arrived to pick us up at the hotel and we were sure we would not all fit with our luggage. You see there was the driver and translator, plus Cathy, Angela, Ian, Krista, Moya and her daughter , Andie. Plus two duffel bags of donations, 4 large suitcases of donations, two carry ons, Ian's camera equipment, each of us had a backpack and four large boxes with baby gyms -made in China but brought from US ( can't buy them here). Whew and we got it all in. Not that it was safe or would have been okay at home. There was no seeing out the back and even the view from the middle seats to front was completely blocked. But we made it!

We were brought to the hotel and settled in and after an hour, our translator, Zhang, came to get us. We thought we were off to the orphanage but he brought us to a room in the hotel where the director and assistant director were. It was a gorgeous welcome lunch with much great food ; all beautifully presented. The most striking was the whipped yam with blueberry sauce which looked like the tops of three twirled ice cream cones with blueberry sauce, Delicious too! The clear square noodles which were almost gelatinous and served with a lot of garlic and peanuts was also a favorite.

After our meal, it was finally time for what we were waiting for: babies!!!!

We went to Gracie's room noticing there were new mats on the floor ( we had bought some in Zhengzhou, having noticed in pictures that they needed to be replaced). We were immediately fully immersed in beautiful kids. We were snuggling babies, playing with the toddlers and asking questions of the ayis. A reporter from the local paper came and interviewed Moya and there were some pictures taken of the whole group with nannies. We hope to get a copy of that issue!!

Krista , our Gracie's Room coordinator, went through each file we have for kids in the program according to our January reports. We asked for questions and clarifications and also asked about each child whose waiting parents had asked us to. And of course took plenty of photos.

Tomorrow we will visit a foster home ( of a child who has a family waiting in the US). We had thought since she was in foster care, we would not get to see her and check on her for her parents. Now we will meet foster parents and see her in their home. Hopefully we can find out some things that will aid this little one's transition to her forever family.
Dumpling dinner and then off to bed. More tomorrow from XinXiang!